Here, there and every where

So the first few times we got together he came to my place.  This worked because my girls were at school or away to their father's.  See in the beginning of my divorce I was very nice and accommodating to try to make it easier on my girls so they were at their fathers a lot.  Anyway one night my SD decided he wanted me to come on a trip with him.  Actually he was out of town and text me begging for me to come keep him company.  Luckily I was off work and the girls were gone.  So after packing quickly and a two hour drive I met up with him at his hotel.  It was nice to be out of town and kind of free to be with him and not have to worry.  See I don't think I've explained yet that my SD was married.  If I did I'm sorry for repeating myself.  So, being discreet was key for him and since my life consisted of the po-dunk town I lived in, and my incredible girls, he had really no worries that anyone would find out about him and me.  Let alone the fact that my family would shun me for the rest of my life.  So there we were out of town together.  He took me out to dinner but gave me the low down of what the story was in case we ran in to someone he knew.  He was there on business so it was possible but unlikely we would run in to someone.  However... we did!!!  He covered well, I smiled and shook hands with someone I to this day would never know again and the night went on.  Dinner was nice but the obvious reason he begged me to come to see him was after dinner and was incredible.  I have never been with someone who could last like he did or that made me feel the way he did.  I made him so happy and pleased over and over and over.  The night was wonderful and I got up early to leave before anyone that he knew could see me leaving his room.  I got back in to my car to drive the two hours home and return to my normal life.  This would be the one and only time I would go out of town with him but it was a nice change from my normal life.

In the beginning...

Many years ago my now ex-husband up and left with two days notice.  Yes, I know, at least he gave me a little notice.  I knew it was coming but didn't know when.  I had been asking him to leave for some time.  About a month before, a few days before Christmas, he told me he would give me what I wanted which was a divorce.  Over the past six years our marriage had started off bad and ended up 100 x's worse.  I had been a stay at home mom since the birth of our second daughter and had watched us lose our home and everything else we had.  So, when we decided we were going to split up I went back to work at night so I didn't have to pay child care.  Once he up and left I wasn't receiving any kind of child support or help from him and was on my own to afford everything he left behind.  Two months later I saw a show that spoke about www.seekingarrangement.com and I finally saw an out or at least something that would help my girls and I to get by.  So, I met a gentleman and that is where the journey begins.