In the beginning...

Many years ago my now ex-husband up and left with two days notice.  Yes, I know, at least he gave me a little notice.  I knew it was coming but didn't know when.  I had been asking him to leave for some time.  About a month before, a few days before Christmas, he told me he would give me what I wanted which was a divorce.  Over the past six years our marriage had started off bad and ended up 100 x's worse.  I had been a stay at home mom since the birth of our second daughter and had watched us lose our home and everything else we had.  So, when we decided we were going to split up I went back to work at night so I didn't have to pay child care.  Once he up and left I wasn't receiving any kind of child support or help from him and was on my own to afford everything he left behind.  Two months later I saw a show that spoke about www.seekingarrangement.com and I finally saw an out or at least something that would help my girls and I to get by.  So, I met a gentleman and that is where the journey begins.